Too Busy for Disasters



Wiggins, Miss., October 29, 2005 -- Cheryl Rasbury shows Skylor Welch, her granddaughter Mariah Rasbury, and their puppy named FEMA, pictures of their destroyed beach house in Bay St.Louis. This family and hundreds of other beach residents were displaced by Hurricane Katrina. George Armstrong/FEMA



In our house, I like to think we wake up each morning to Plan A.  Plan A means the grown-ups exercise, the kids have healthy breakfasts and everyone gets out of the house to school and work on time.  Where is Plan A?  Does anyone get to the bathroom in the morning with Plan A?  Not too often.

Maybe the baby had a bad night or the dog had to go out at 3:00 AM because she got the remaining birthday cake, or you tossed and turned all night because your mind was racing with business-related pressures.

My philosophy is to hold on to Plan A, to strive for it but for goodness sake be ready for reality.  We are all too tired.  We are juggling family, finances and work 24/7.  We have odd stress-related ailments that may turn into chronic illnesses.  The bottom line is: we are pushed and pushing beyond our limits every day.

But it is our responsibility to be prepared for the inevitable disaster or incident.  This may mean your child falls off his skateboard and needs his wounds cleaned and bandaged.  It may mean you are stuck in a major traffic jam on the way to a ski resort and need blankets, flashlights, food and water to survive several hours in the cold and dark.  It could mean there is a blackout in your city which cripples public transportation and leaves you wondering how to pick-up your toddler from daycare on-time.

When we watch television, we see terrorism, natural disasters and war in places far from us.  What is local may seem manageable and still not close enough to touch us.  But the old saying “it is not if but when” truly applies to disaster in our lives.  House fires, car accidents, hurricanes and winter storms do happen.

Finding yourself in a situation that requires you to act without the right supplies is devastating.  We know how to bandage skinned knees, but where are the band aids?  We know how to use flashlights in the dark, but has anyone seen the flashlight?  Do the batteries work?  We know to pick an emergency meeting place in case we cannot get home, but did we pick the middle school or the grocery store?  The fact is we are not ready.

We have many excuses for why we have not prepared.  We are too busy, our finances are stretched, and we live in a safe place.  But the excuses will not protect us from the inevitable.   So why not help your family, co-workers and friends be ready for disasters?  It is the best gift you can give them.  It shows you truly care about them and that you understand the risks in their lives—because they are the same ones in your life!

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